My First Course: Gay Dating Apps 101!
Over the past five years of coaching, one topic continually keeps popping up with my gay male clients, how to use dating apps. Some clients are older and literally have no idea how they work, while younger clients aren’t really sure what to put on their profiles or what to even do on the first date. But everybody has the same concerns about spending too much time on them and the mental health aspects of how we are all treated on these apps (enter ghosting and catfishing).
While the apps have been a huge help in connecting people (especially queer people who may not even have a safe space to meet like-minded folks), it is also isolating, lonely, and can be very hurtful and frustrating.
So I am THRILLED to announce, I have launched my first course, Gay Dating Apps 101.
This is an online course anyone can take to better understand how to use the apps including:
Which app is best for you
How to create a profile
What you want in a partner
What to expect/ App etiquette
How to deal with rejection
Catfishing/Scammers
Other places to connect with gay men
Sex positivity (ie do you send nudes and 🍆 pics)
Check out this quick video I made explaining the course. Now here is that vulnerable moment I will ask you to please spread the word. If you know any single gay men who may need a little help navigating the dating world waters? I got them!
Of course, I have to give a huge shout-out to my boyfriend (we met on the apps!), Chris Kendall, who edited all of the videos, added the intros and music and gave me constant feedback on what worked and what didn’t. Thank you love!
As I know from countless years of dating IRL and on the apps, it’s hard. But through my time as a coach, I have discovered some great tools that can really help calm the nerves and bring in the focus on exactly what you want. The biggest piece of the pie however are those two very powerful words, ‘Self Love’. If we don’t love ourselves we can often be set up for failure in dating and relationships. Knowing exactly what we want, keeping our non-negotiables firm, and never, ever letting anyone treat us with a lack of compassion or respect is paramount. And with self-love, comes authenticity, and vulnerability, two key factors in a healthy relationship.
And of course, even if you are already in a relationship but still need someone to speak to about getting untuck or moving forward, I am here for you!
